Friday, July 25, 2008
OK...i am gd at consoling and 开解，开导 others but not the case when it comes to myself,and tats really sad.
To all my dear frens who are really thinking of giving up on their loved ones...
Think twice b4 the word break up comes out from yr mouth.That word is really powerful.It can really bring great misery,and when i say great misery i really mean it.The degree of hurt it can bring is beyond yr imagination.Never say break when u dont mean to.like in a fit of anger or before searching yr heart for the ans.Dun say break when u still love tat person...cos u are going to feel the pain mentioned above.In a relationship, there is bound to be one who is more dominant,and to balance up the other MUST learn to give n take...If both of them are just as stubborn, i assure u tat yr relationship is not going to work out.But of cos,if yr someone is really overbearing,then u shall not just blindly give in......COMMUNICATION!this is the key!!u need this in every relationship.Know wat the other party is thinking.dun jus keep everything to yrself.How is he/she able to know wat u are thinking when u dun voice it out.
PARANOID...Its only human nature...think on the positive side.he or she is jus overly concerned.afraid to lose u...frankly speaking,if he or she were jus hack care,dun give two hoots bout wat u are doing,would u be happy???
To my dearest sista...
U made me so worried when u msged me tat day.All i can say is tat is really normal.Dun be afraid k.u can always come talk to me:)i will give u some gd comments...Think about the happy times u all spent tgt...do not be disheartened easily.U all went thru much to come to this stage remember?分分合合 but still went back to him.it means tat u really love him n he has a place in yr heart.He thinks tat he is the one tat is holding on to this relationship ya...But do we really need to measure who is the one giving more in the relationship?U should noe how i clinged on to my relationship for 3 yrs...but did i ever really complained to him?maybe infront of u all i will grumble abit but i have neva told jeff tat before. 两个人在一起，不需要去衡量或比较谁付出的比较多谁付出的比较少，因为当你深爱着一个人你会愿意为他无条件地付出，就算得不到回报也不会计较因为你只想看到他快乐.But anyway since both of u have came across so much liao why not try to make it work?Ya,i noe u are facing tremendous stress becos ppl ard u dun see future any future in this relationship.but if u really love him then lets jus be oblivious to wat everyone is saying.but u cant blame them actual,they are jus ppl who are concerned....nevertheless,u still have my support:-)hope everything goes well for the both of u k!!!if u nid to talk,i will always be there for u:)tc my dear
her sweet memory was written @ 9:12 PM